I am the only person who ever looked at dating like this?
When we go out on dates we present the very best of ourselves. It's only after getting emotionally involved and attached that we start to find out the "bad" aspects of a person.
Why can't it be like, "tell me the worst parts about you and then if I still want to get to know you, THEN I get to find out the best parts of you. Doesn't the saying "if you can't handle the worst of me, you don't deserve the best of me" ring true?
Don't I have any right to know if your in serious debt, have a disease, seeing someone else, been to prison, etc, etc.
And if not, at what point in a "relationship" am I allowed to find out these very important things?
